The Ultimate Guide to Wedding Invitations: When, How and Who to Invite

Wedding invitations set the tone for your big day. They tell guests when and where to come, and give them a sneak peek of what's to come. Here's the ultimate guide to wedding invitations, including when to send them, how to send them, who to invite, and ideas for what to write.

When to send: Save the date cards should go out six to eight months before the wedding. This gives guests plenty of time to plan their schedules and book travel arrangements. Wedding invitations should go out six to eight weeks before the wedding.

How to send: Wedding invitations can be sent by mail or electronically. Mailing them adds a personal touch, but electronic invitations are eco-friendly and cost-effective. If you choose to mail your invitations, consider hiring a calligrapher to address the envelopes.

Who to invite: The guest list should include close family, friends, and anyone else you want to celebrate with. Keep in mind that the more guests you invite, the more expensive your wedding will be.

What to write: Your wedding invitations should include the following information:

• Names of the couple
• The date and time of the wedding ceremony and reception
• The location of the ceremony and reception
• Dress code
• RSVP information, including the date by which you need to receive responses

Here are some ideas for wording your wedding invitations:

• Classic Wording:
  "Mr. and Mrs. John Smith request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter Jane Elizabeth Smith to Mr. James Robert Brown Saturday, the tenth of June Two thousand and twenty-three at half after six in the evening St. Mary's Church 123 Main Street Anytown, USA"
• Casual Wording:
  "Come celebrate with us! Jane and James are getting married June 10, 2023 6:30 PM St. Mary's Church 123 Main Street Anytown, USA RSVP by May 20, 2023"
• Modern Wording:
  "Together with our families Jane and James invite you to join us as we begin our forever Saturday, June 10, 2023 6:30 PM St. Mary's Church 123 Main Street Anytown, USA"

In conclusion, wedding invitations are an important part of the planning process. Send them out on time, choose the right method for you, invite the people you love, and make sure your wording reflects the tone of your wedding. With these tips, you'll create the perfect invitations for your dream wedding!

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